Weight Loss & Turning 40 Soon!

I turn 40 on Sunday.  I've been on a weight loss mission to reach my goal weight by 40 years old.  This morning I woke up bloated and stuffy (sneezing, coughing too) - - yeah, like that is going to help when I get on the scale!  Let's bloat up with water on my final week of weight loss.  My husband wants me to stop losing weight.  I am right in the middle of the "normal" for BMI so I'm not technically overweight anymore, however, I still have a few places that could stand to lose a few more pounds.  He says I am fine the way I am and I should just enjoy eating (yeah, coming from my skinny hubby - - easy for him to say).

Yesterday while pulling stuff out of my trunk, a truck drove by and whistled at me.  Maybe I don't have to lose anymore weight?  I don't know.  I look at myself and see all the places that need it.  A good friend of mine says I don't need to lose anymore and have curves in all the right places.  Am I looking at myself differently than how people see me?  I wish I knew.